How to Keep Him Hooked On You and Not in Another Sexy Singles Bedroom

When it comes to the subject of intimacy, women forget that men need attention, just as much as she does. Not only does this needed, before-sex, attention help enhance the man’s intimate experience- it also entices his feelings for her. This extra added, loving, caress creates an ever evolving excitement in him for her. Which undoubtedly helps to ensure his loyalty for one thing, while establishing a lasting and passionate lust for her as well.

Any good man desires a self confident woman, not afraid of her own sexual drive to shower their love affair with aggressive, pre-play, approaches. They find real excitement behind certain, yet passionate innuendos such as, a pre-event strip tease. Even though he may have seen her a hundred times before, a stripe tease allows him to feast his eyes directly on her and allows him to think about what is in store for him to come. This welcoming relief, as told by Carole Altman, PhD and author of the best seller, You Can Be Your Own Sex Therapist, "Is a real turn on for the man."

• Intimate Evolution
  My Personal Reflection & Advice to You!

I know how hard it is to break out of your shell, and turn yourself into a woman of the night. But you've to do it for your marriage's sake. For some women, it is almost impossible to break their self-imposed modesty. With that said, modesty in the bedroom is not something a man is looking for in his leading lady. Whether you fear rejection or the possibility of looking stupid..., pleasing your man should be high on your list of girlfriend or wifely duties. Why do you think men cheat? It is because they are missing something in their lives. Be that may- I am not condoning that activity but, I also don't think it is fair to ask him to live his life yearning for something, just because you have pad locked the pleasure playground. When it comes to satisfaction, providing for your leading lover is just as important as him pleasing you. Not to mention- it is the one sure way to make darn sure that he doesn't take his sexy booty (and thus his drive for you) elsewhere for a real woman's touch.

One great way to overcome self-imposed restrictions, is by removing emotional elements that keep you down. Such as taking down family pictures of you and your parents, and placing them in their proper place. Hang your family images in the hallway, or on a main focal wall- anywhere but, your bedroom or private bathroom. Also, if you are not comfortable performing certain pre-play time activities, wear more intimate and seductive lingerie. Their is so much to be said about wearing lingerie. Learn to use this form of eye candy, as a tool to your advantage. Whether or not they want to admit it, men go wild over lingerie. Therefore, periodically try to introduce a new sexy look for your lover. Make sure it is something that brings out the saucy side of you, and something he will enjoy viewing. The lingerie is not for you my dear, it is for him. If his favorite color is red, by all means wear red whether you look good in the color or not. I promise you he will see only beauty when you walk into the room. Whether or not you've got darker circles under your eyes, or the outfit clashes with your brunette hair does not matter to him. He doesn't care if you are a summer, winter, spring or fall gal. He doesn't notice that stuff anyways..., which is a total woman's thing to begin with. Your goal is the pick out and wear a proper fitting garment, and leave the colors to him. This is his eye candy, so let him enjoy it. This is about enticing him ladies, thus you need to find him an enticement he finds worth keeping.

In all honestly if your relationship has become stagnate, introducing new ideas into your love life can only help the relationship. Thereby, stop holding yourself back and develop a new attitude towards him and how you behave in the bedroom. There are many resources out there to find ways around your own inhibitions for his sake. After all, this is the man you said I do too! If you cannot find a way to increase your own lustful drive, then you might as well give him to me or any other perfect stranger. The sooner you get over yourself, the better off and more safe your relationship with him will be.